Why it’s #BlackLivesMatter, NOT #AllLivesMatter

*TW: police brutality, racism*

i can’t explain how dejected i feel right now-

PSA: i am not black and in no way am i trying to say that i understand how it feels to live this nightmare. however, i am a poc and i also fear for my life, although to a lesser extent because i have privilege- the criminal justice system doesn’t hate me as much as they hate my black brothers and sisters and siblings.

For everyone who doesn’t live in the USA or just doesn’t have an idea what I might be talking about, the USA has had a stream of racist hate crimes and police brutality over the last month or so.

It makes me really angry to see that people DENY that this is police brutality, that this is racism- it literally is.

In late March, Ahmaud Arbery was out jogging (mind you, he was holding a TV, but he was just out in his neighborhood) when two white men (who were later identified to be white supremacists) shot. him.

Guess what? THERE WAS A VIDEO. But no action was taken. 

Those men weren’t even freaking arrested. A month later, the video was leaked onto social media and it went viral. The hashtags #JusticeForAhmaud and #RunWithMaud became trending and the local police department FINALLY took action and arrested these two men.



Then a few weeks ago, Breonna Taylor and her husband were sleeping in their apartment at 1:00 AM like any normal person would do.

Breonna was a healthcare worker, and she worked on the frontlines with COVID patients. She saved lives.

The police knocked down their door at 1 AM (because they suspected her boyfriend committed a crime that he didn’t, actually- the suspects lived 10 miles away!) and, well, Breonna’s boyfriend was obviously worried that they were being robbed.

He fired one (1) shot, and the police proceeded to unload over twenty shots at them. Eight hit Breonna.

She died on the spot. Her boyfriend was charged with attempted murder. The cops were not charged at all.

Okay, okay, but maybe this one wasn’t a hate crime, right?

A few days ago, a video surfaced of George Floyd, a Black man, laying on the road with a white police officer’s knee at his throat. For ten minutes, the police officer slowly suffocated him until he died at a hospital soon after.

He could be heard saying “I can’t breathe“. Maybe you’ve seen the hashtags #JusticeForGeorge and #ICan’tBreathe on Twitter and Insta.

Maybe you’ve also seen #BlackLivesMatter. The sudden spike of posts under this hashtag has also warranted a spike in the amount of #AllLivesMatter posts.

I’m here to tell you something important: if you say ‘All Lives Matter’ , you’re unintentionally being racist.

First: this doesn’t mean that you’re a racist. A few years ago, a teacher talked to us about Black Lives Matter and I remember thinking, annoyed, don’t brown lives matter too? ALL lives matter, why specifically black people?

I’ve realized, though, that the problem with All Lives Matter is not the words- yes, all lives obviously matter, we all know that– it’s the connotation and the line of thinking that goes behind these words.

In our criminal justice system, in our country, in our society, in our WORLD, Black lives matter less.

The system has placed Black lives below white lives and even other people of color’s lives.

I’m Asian, I’m brown-skinned, but in my community, there is anti-Blackness. I have seen it first-hand. I have had to unlearn my own biases (and I’m still doing it).

In the media, headlines about Black people are thought to be ‘less important’ and shoved to the backseat. Job applications with names that “sound Black” (e.g. DeShawn or Precious) are often thrown out without a glance. Black people just walking makes white women steer clear and grab their children close. White people with Confederate flags (reminder for my intl friends: that was the South in the Civil War. They supported slavery) are protected by the police while peaceful Black protestors are sprayed with tear gas.

The Black Lives Matter movement just wants Black lives to matter just as much as white lives.

By saying “All Lives Matter”, you’re drawing attention away from the movement which is actively trying to fight for equity regardless of skin color. You’re literally taking away from the anti-racist movement.

In other words, you’re (accidentally) helping the racists.

But it’s okay, making mistakes is okay. Learning from them is awesome! Just understand that the BLM movement is saying that in the status quo, Black Lives do not matter to America- they are undervalued. The goal is for Black lives to matter just as much as others’ lives.

Here’s an example:

Imagine that three patients have been admitted to the hospital. Patient One has a cold. Patient Two has a broken arm. And Patient Three has lost blood and needs life support ASAP.

Who needs the most immediate care?

Patient Three, who is suffering the most, of course.

The All Lives Matter movement is basically saying that you should treat them all as if they are equal wounds. As if the person dying is suffering the same as the person with the cold.

Now, this is a simple analysis in which Person One is White America, Person Two is other POCs like me, and Person Three is Black America.

Obviously, Person Three needs support now. They are at a DISADVANTAGE.

That’s how Black America feels.

Now, another part of the All Lives Matter movement are just people who are plain racist. But a HUGE portion is people like me-two-years-ago, who just didn’t understand why All Lives Matter is not the right saying to make a difference.

And then there’s those fragile white people, especially, who badly want to be oppressed.

(also a little like me-two-years-ago. so I guess mostly white ppl but also random uneducated POC)

Of course, the majority of white people do not feel like that, but there are some people who are literally desperate to be ‘oppressed’.

~bUt OnE tiME a bLaCk pErSon wAs MeAn To mE~

I just want everyone who is reading this to stop. 

Look away from the screen and breathe, deeply.

Mourn for Ahmaud, mourn for Breonna, mourn for George, and mourn for all the Black people who lost their lives as a result of racism.

We remember you, and we will not stop fighting for you.

– Aditi ✊🏽✊🏾✊🏿

31 thoughts on “Why it’s #BlackLivesMatter, NOT #AllLivesMatter

  1. This was a really important post and I love the way you’ve put it into words. The all lives matter hashtag is so infuriating in itself, and this morning I realised there was another hashtag trending on instagram called White Lives Matter. #whitelivesmatter is just ridiculous to think about with all that is happening right now. It’s right up with with #notallmen and #straightparade. People need to understand that all they’re doing is taking up space in a place that isn’t intended to be theirs.
    Thank you for sharing ❤

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    1. Thank you so much, Arshia ❤
      Oh my gosh, I can't believe that there's a white lives matter?!!? that's SO disgusting and just disappointing 😦 UGH #notallmen and #straightpride are both BS :/ exactly!!

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  2. Aditi this is just incredible, seriously I can honestly imagine there being a speech that is read by a very important person (like the government)and honestly everything is just precise, I was very confused when I saw the ALM hashtag, it completely takes the focus away from what the people who are making this stand are trying to achieve, thank you for sharing this powerful post with us Aditi, I hope that no harm comes to you or your family from this 💕 Also I saw a comment saying it was your birthday yesterday?! HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO THE MOST INCREDIBLE POpCORn IN THE WORLD!! Hope you had an amazing day!! 🙂

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    1. THANK YOU SO MUCH! It means a lot to me (even though I just scribbled this out really angrily and ended up publishing it XD). I don’t think the gov is monitoring my teeny little blog (…… I hope …….)

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      1. OF COURSE! Haha don’t worry once I wrote this massive rant and nearly posted it and then I looked at it the next day and I was like ‘thank the goats I didn’t publish it 😂’ Haha how weird would that be?! Of course! Ily2!! 😊

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  3. thank you so much for this post, Aditi! you wrote it so powerfully and it’s honestly disgusting and terrifying to hear about what Black people still face today. the thing that terrifies me the most is that, (like you said) if not for all the awareness that has been spreading, these police officers would have gotten away, uncharged. it is horrifying and i cannot imagine what our Black friends must be going through at this time; i agree that the least we can do is mourn for the people who have lost their lives and stand as strong allies.

    and thank you for talking about #AllLivesMatter!! i agree that i wouldn’t have understood why it was not ok to say that a few years ago, but i’ve realized that it is so uncalled for and completely takes away from the point! thank you for sharing this and speaking up. ❤

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    1. Thank you for commenting, Ash! It really means a lot ❤ I totally get that- it frightens me too. And it makes me disgusted with this world tbh. I absolutely cannot imagine that either, but it's heartwarming to see the solidarity coming from all the communities.
      Of course! The entire ALM movement is stupid, to see the least 😦

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  4. “~bUt OnE tiME a bLaCk pErSon wAs MeAn To mE~” LMAOO THIS IS SO TRUE. But anyway I love this post!!! You using your platform to discuss these issues really does help, and thank you for it 🥰

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    1. omg totally! a bunch of white trolls on the Internet use that against Black people and women to claim that white supremacy and misogyny doesn’t exist lmaooo
      Thank you ❤

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  5. hi! i was just rereading this and i love how clear and informative it was. it’s wonderful that you spoke up about it. i was wondering if i could put a link for this in a post of mine with the proper credits? thank you!

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  6. This is such a needed post, and you’ve written it so beautifully. I’m an Asian too, and I have a brown complexion as well, and this post was so informative, and I think will help a lot of people understand the severity of the situation (all around the world, but especially in the United States) in a better way 🙂 Thank you for writing this!

    You included examples, and how much you care about this really shone through your writing. If this doesn’t inspire people to take part in the blm movement, I don’t know what will. You also spoke about #AllLivesMatter, which is also really important, because people are unintentionally racist that way, and even if they don’t know it, it’s hurting someone, so I’m really glad you touched that topic. Thank you once again for writing this post ❤✨

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    1. Thank you so much, Ahaana!! I absolutely agree with that and I’m really glad that you think it’s helpful :))
      Ahhh this means so much to me aoisdjfiosd thank you so so much!! ❤

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  7. *Virtual hug*
    Honestly it really makes me mad when people are like “i don’t believe in racism but aLl LiVeS mAtTeR and why are you making such big deal you’re being racist to white people”
    I’ve seen post on blogs I used to like like this and it really hurts.
    I think you’re brave to write a post like this and speak up. And I’m sorry if this is turning into a rant but I really just had to get it out.
    Again thank you for writing this.

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    1. *virtual hug back atchu*
      THANK YOU SM FOR COMMENTING ALLISON! I really appreciate it and I’m glad you resonated with my post <333
      And no this is not ranty at all! In fact, my post was probably ranty XD


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